what can I do about this situation?
About a month ago, I met a guy online (FB) through an old friend of mine (they went to HS together) and we hit it off right away, we clicked. We found out that we have so much in common. He has a great sense of humor which is what I love in a guy, he's gentleman and is very polite. He shared a bit of personal information about himself with me which I found flattering that he opened up to me like that. I spoke with my friend and it seems his information is legit, he's been honest with me. The problem is that we live in different cites and I'm not sure what he thinks of me. We IM almost every day and a few days ago he asked me for my number. I felt right about it so I gave it to him, it's the first time I do something like that. He text me right away and wanted to talk the day after but I was busy and couldn't do it. Since then, he hasn't initiated the texting and hasn't proposed to talk again. We have chatted and he will leave flirty comments on my posts but that's about it. I've been hurt in the past so I am kind of on the defense about things and I feel like I may have come out as short and dry with him on a few occasions. I'm really starting to like him, he actually told me that he's planning a trip to the city I was born in (which I constantly visit) and that he would love it if we met in person there but he hasn't said anything anymore. I don't want this friendship to get cold, instead I want him to become more interested in me but how do I do it online? I don't want to seem clingy and desperate but I also don't want him to get the idea that I'm not interested in him. If any of you have any pointers that you can give me, I'd really appreciate that. Has anyone had an experience like this? if so, do you mind sharing with me. Oh and by the way, we are not teenagers anymore, we are in our late 20's pretty mature people, we are not about games anymore.
P.S when I said I couldn't talk it was because I was gonna watch a movie at home. I don't know if that could have made him feel bad, that I'd rather watch a movie than talk to him. Me as a woman, I probably would have felt bad but I don't know how men work.
Posted by Vinay
If i were you, I'd go directly talk to him. If things go positive for you, continue; else, move on.
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